Christian Sex: What Every Couple Needs to Know for a Happy, Healthy Christian Marriage Bed

After 25 years of marriage, I’m convinced one of the most under-discussed topics in marriage is Christian sex. 

This shouldn’t be! We should have more to say than anyone else, because God is the author of sex. Sadly, when we refuse to talk about healthy sexuality, we allow the world’s voice to be the authority on the subject.

Not good. 

I frequently get questions from readers about the topic of Christian sex, so decided to do a series on healthy Christian sexuality. I will add more posts to this page as they are published.

So go ahead and inspire your marriage bed and get your questions answered below with this round up of resources and information on healthy Christian sexuality!

I'm dishing out the Best christian sex advice I've ever been given. Find out what it is!


Basics of Christian Sex 

Christian Wife’s Guide to Better Sex- The topic of Christian sex is so biblically underdeveloped (yes, sex is in the Bible!) that we need a reminder of where our sights need to be when it comes to physical intimacy and a Christian sex life.

5 Reasons Why Christians Should Have More Sex- If there were ever a time when sex between a married man and woman should be red hot and enviable, that time is now. We live in a culture that sees one man-one woman married sex as boring, bland and vanilla flavored. Scripture teaches just the opposite: this type of sex can be passionate, rich, meaningful and downright sacred.

10 Powerful Verses for Fighting Sexual Temptation- Sexual temptation is common to man and God’s word promises He is faithful to give us a way of escape. These are some of my favorite scriptures for fighting sexual temptation.

Do you know the guidelines for Christian sex? Click through to read about them in this post.


Christian Sex Rules You Need to Know- This post challenges our common beliefs about sex and exposes lies many Christian believe.

Healthy Christian Sexuality- How do you respond when you hear “Healthy Sex Life in Christian Marriage”? By raising your glass and sharing a smile? Or by looking down hoping the topic will go away (or die)? Here are 7 tips for cultivating a healthy married life.

Help for Common Sex Challenges:

Help for Teen Girls and Porn- Porn use among women is a growing problem, especially when you consider fantasy and mental porn. Here are some timeless tips for women and girls struggling with porn.

Christians and Homosexuality- Wondering what you can do about this growing issue? Here are 4 Things Every Christian Can Do about Homosexuality

Christian Sex Advice- 14 Top Tips for having a healthy, passionate marriage bed.

Is Porn Okay in Marriage? Shades of Gray rocked the marriage and relationship scene and left many women asking, “Should we use porn in our marriage to spice things up?”

What’s OK in the Bedroom for Christian Couples? Ever wondered about things like sex toys, oral sex, or porn? This post walks you through a biblical process for deciding what is okay and what defiles the marriage bed.

Christian Dating and Sex: How Far is Too Far? What does the Bible say about boundaries? This post explores what Scripture says about dating and sex before marriage.

Struggle with Low Libido?

What’s so Great about Sex, anyway? This post and accompanying resource will help you stop feeling GUILTY about your low sex drive and offers practical tips instead. A breath of fresh air from a genuine Christian sex therapist.

6 Ways to Encourage Intimacy when You “Don’t Feel Like It”- It happens. One partner is on, the other “off.” What do you do when you’re not excited about sex?


Christian Sex Advice You Won’t Hear Anywhere Else

How to have Confident, Christian Sex- The Shulamite woman leads the way in this post on what it really looks like to enjoy sexual intimacy with your mate. A must read!

Healthy Married Christian Sexuality- What does a healthy sex life look like? This post addresses issues of sexual frequency and how “healthy” is defined.

Christian Sex Blogs– A list of top fantastic sites, resources, and books.

Christian View on Premarital Sex- One woman’s story of how pre-marital sex ruined her marriage.

Sex Satisfaction for the Christian Marriage- This husband and wife team talk about serving one another within the marriage bed.

Regaining Sexual Intimacy After Your Trust has been broken- Broken trust can ruin a marriage. Here is one wife’s advice on how to rebuild trust and restore intimacy during the process.

Honest Answers About Healthy Sex for Christian Women- You may still have some questions about sex for the Christian woman. This post from Barb Hudson might help!

Read these Christian sex rules - biblical guidelines for intimacy in marriage

Top Christian Sex Blogs

Christian Sex Blogs– A list of top fantastic sites, resources, and books.

Talking about sex may be awkward for us as Christians but the truth is, we NEED to discuss it and allow God’s word to be what informs our understanding.. not social media, movies, books, etc.

From August to October 2018, we’ll add one new post on the topic right here on this page, so be sure to bookmark this page and check back each Monday!

Does shame interfere in your marriage bed? Check out the post where I share my shame story here.